My father officially went into hospice today

by stonewalrus, Saturday, July 07, 2012, 14:52 (4322 days ago)
edited by stonewalrus, Saturday, July 07, 2012, 15:05

He's in real bad shape from dementia and won't eat. In a way his passing will be a blessing but it is hard to watch and "hospice" has such a permanent ominous ring of finality to it.

I am so sorry to hear this. Prayers said for you all...

by Hobie ⌂ @, Shenandoah Valley of Virginia, Saturday, July 07, 2012, 14:54 (4322 days ago) @ stonewalrus

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Sincerely,

Hobie

Prayers sent for you and your Dad. God Bless Him

by Fivegunner @, LOWELL Mi., Saturday, July 07, 2012, 15:52 (4322 days ago) @ stonewalrus

May he be at peace.

Sad when this happens, prayers for him and you..

by Cherokee @, Medina, Ohio, Saturday, July 07, 2012, 16:10 (4321 days ago) @ stonewalrus

nm

Prayers sent

by cubrock, Saturday, July 07, 2012, 20:45 (4321 days ago) @ stonewalrus

I well remember my dad being in your shoes back in 2004 as he had to go through this with my granddad.

A very sad situation.....

by Otony, Saturday, July 07, 2012, 21:18 (4321 days ago) @ stonewalrus

Prayers sent, we remember this time all too well, try and keep your spirits up.

Otony

You are in our prayers.

by Dave B @, Alamogordo New Mexico, Sunday, July 08, 2012, 00:34 (4321 days ago) @ stonewalrus

NM

My father officially went into hospice today

by Murphy @, Sunday, July 08, 2012, 00:53 (4321 days ago) @ stonewalrus

Prayers sent.

My father officially went into hospice today

by SKgrips @, Sunday, July 08, 2012, 08:05 (4321 days ago) @ stonewalrus

I was in your shoes with my Dad a few years ago. Im sorry your going theough this, but there is some solace in the fact that they are at peace, spend every minute with him during these last few days. Thats my only regret, that I wasnt thre when he passed. God Bless

My father officially went into hospice today

by Tom Richardson @, Clarksville, Arkansas, Sunday, July 08, 2012, 09:06 (4321 days ago) @ stonewalrus

Prayers sent.

May his suffering soon be at an end

by BCodd, Sunday, July 08, 2012, 10:11 (4321 days ago) @ stonewalrus

I am sorry that you are going through this. We will keep you all in our thoughts.

Prayers for you all, Stone.

by Sarge, Sunday, July 08, 2012, 12:58 (4321 days ago) @ stonewalrus

Very sorry to hear this.

I had to do the same with my Mom,

by anachronism, Sunday, July 08, 2012, 14:50 (4321 days ago) @ stonewalrus

a couple of years ago. It was peaceful and quiet. If you need someone to talk to, whos been through it, send me a PM, and I'll give you my e-mail address.

Bob

Hospice

by Catoosa, Sunday, July 08, 2012, 20:27 (4320 days ago) @ stonewalrus

Think I've told you this before, but the hospice folks were absolutely great with my dad. They work with the whole family as well as the patient, and were a great comfort to us all.

It's never easy, but accepting a peaceful passing....

by John Meeker @, Sunday, July 08, 2012, 20:45 (4320 days ago) @ stonewalrus

is a comfort to the loss. It is still an ending, but a beginning, as well. God's blessings to your family.

Very sorry Tom.

by Hoot @, Diversityville, Liberal-sota, Monday, July 09, 2012, 09:49 (4320 days ago) @ stonewalrus

Prayers for your Dad and his family and friends.

I'm sorry for you... I know how hard it is...

by JD, Western Washington, Monday, July 09, 2012, 14:36 (4320 days ago) @ stonewalrus

My mom is at the end of her stay with hospice.... She'll be with the Lord in a day or two now....

It is hard to watch this stage of a parents life. You feel guilty for putting them in hospice and guilty for not doing more, but there is nothing left that you can do for them but love them and spend time with them. Part of the cycle of life I know, but so very hard none the less.......

The hospice agency that is helping with my mom has been simply wonderful in their care of her and support for the family. Far better for her than being in a nursing home or a hospital....

God be with you and your family.

JD

Prayers sent....

by Brian A, Monday, July 09, 2012, 16:57 (4319 days ago) @ stonewalrus

nm

My father officially went into hospice today

by Creeker @, Hardwoods, Tuesday, July 10, 2012, 20:15 (4318 days ago) @ stonewalrus

It can be final & is for most who go there but the people are trained to do what needs done. I minister in those places & for the most part they are good places. The Lord be with you in this trying time.

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